I don’t think people realise how hard it is to re-discover the person you were before depression or even try to remember your own personality
Forever wondering if I am contributing to a conversation by using my own experiences or being self centered and rude.
Notice only 20 shades of gray
It’s been proven that women actually have an acute ability to pick up subtle differences in colors
In response to that last comment^^
Yes. It comes from the Hunter-Gatherer days.
Women were the gatherers. They had to be able to discern between the different shades of colors to know which plants were poisonous and which were not.
Men were out hunting, so they didn’t have to worry about that.
Which is why women see “Blood orange” and “crimson” and “scarlet” etc while guys just see “red”.
We all, at one point in our life, became a victim of someone’s poisonous words. We all went through self doubt and let the poison in our system. We all became survivors, or will become survivors, and emerged stronger and wiser after each inflicted wound we had taken. It’s a process. It’s what every person need to become better, to realize that you have to strive harder and improve yourself more, not to please the person who hurt you but to make yourself better and more courageous to suck out the poison and spit it to the ground.